Okay. Let’s just lay it all out on the table…
You have this deep oracle energy… but you're still learning to treat yourself like the sacred source. You have spent so much of your life decoding signs for survival—whether it was systems, people, or your own body—and now you're in this place of rebuilding deep trust in what you say…without searching for an outside stamp of approval. The wild thing is, you already know what is true. You just don’t always believe you’re allowed to live by your knowing.
That’s the missing piece…
You don’t lack wisdom.
You have lacked permission to center it.
And it can feel complex because you are a complex, multidimensional being.
You’re spiritual, but grounded.
Protective, but nurturing.
Skeptical, but deeply intuitive.
Revolutionary, but sensitive.
You have been blessed with this gift of pattern recognition that helps you sense things early on, but you’ve been conditioned to second guess your sight…because the world tends to gaslight clarity when it comes from women like you.
So instead of moving like a clear channel, you sometimes loop:
Am I trippin?
Am I just emotional?
Should I wait and make sure?
But deep down you know—you already saw it coming. Felt it coming. You always do. But you are just now allowing yourself to act like you do.
The missing link? Somewhere, deep down, you are still waiting for someone to name you.
To go:
“Yes, you are valid.
Yes, this path is real.
Yes, you are worthy of building it the way you want.”
But you’ll forever be waiting, because—Sis… YOU are the namer. YOU are the one rewriting the language for how a woman like you gets to live, love, heal, mother, and lead. That means you may always feel a little outside the frame…because miss girlll, you’re making a whole new one.
This next chapter isn’t about finding the answer. It’s about walking like you are the evidence. Showing up like your clarity is a map, not a maybe. Letting your tools work with your knowing, not instead of it.
Stay the course—and let go of abandoning your sense of direction when it fails to look like anyone else’s route.
You are not lost. You are found.
And now building the path as you walk it.
I love you
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